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Kari
05-10-2004, 08:45 PM
Is there any nice way of saying, 'Hey, we are a Laundromat not a daycare!

We have a problem with horible kids (from ages 1.5 - 14). I have intersepted children as young as 1.5 years of age on thier way to the busy highway. They are constantly playing with the carts, throwing food on the floor (if it is chips, stepping on them to make a bigger miss). If I see them throw things, no matter the age ,I try to get them to pick it up. Most will do it but some even the young ones will tell you to screw off. I have lots of Garbage cans in and around the building but they still throw the trash on the ground. When I catch them they say things like, 'Us kids don't know where the garbage cans are.' I wanted to strangle the little girl (about 8) that tld me that one. We have two wheel chair ramps. Along side each there are steel railings. I can not keep them from playing on them. someone will slip and crack their head open. We own the carwash outside and they are always playing iwth the hoses, which are a few hundred dollars to replace. They climb the trees (we cut the lower branches so they can not swing on them). Our building use to be an old gas station. They like to climb on the utility polls that hold up the canapy (which have wires running in them. We have one group of kids that come in that are so bad that when my husband sees them pull up he calls me jsut so we can make sure we have two people there, one for the customers and one to 'babysit' If the child is old enough to know better my husband pulls them aside and talks to them. That helps. Many of the parents do not speak english. What I am finding is that with the Hispanic family they would preferr that you the owner deal with their child if there is a problem. But if it is an African American child that is acting up and you try ot tell the child not to do what ever they are doing. The parent gets VERY angry and you may loose them as a customer.


I heard of a upscale cafe that had these same type of issues. The posted the "Cafe Rule' on the front of the menus so they are in clear site. It seemed to help.

Have any of you posted "Laundromat Rules' any where through out your store. I am also trying to cover my butt as I do not want to loose everything because some parent can not watch their own child. I have not yet set my self up as a corporation (I do know that that will help) I will be doing that is the future. Also I like Duane's idea of the LED light but because my customer base speaks either english or spanish it may not work as well. Plus I am a very small store.

I would just love to say 'Hey, take your business else where please', but the families that cause the problems are large families and bring in LOTS of business. Plus I am in a twon of 2K so need all the customers I can.

JamesWash
05-11-2004, 12:04 AM
I understand your situation. I had similar problem before. Some kids were bad and naughty. They would try to break anything in the store. They played basketball in my store, roller skate in my store, laundry cart racing, ...............
I had handrails and window glass broken by the kids. It costed me hundreds of dollars to fix the damages. And their parents were poor and never paid me back for the damages. I had big signs saying don't do this, don't do that. But it didn't help. Signs may be effective in more disciplined, upscale community, but become less effective in lower class community.
Interestingly and although unscientific, I do have the same feeling about the different ethnic parental behavior you mentioned in your post.

Kari
05-11-2004, 01:57 AM
I am not so much looking to put up signs to make the kids stop (I understand that will never happen). I am looking to put up signs more for legal reasons. If there are lists of rules that are in clear site and some child (who can not follow the rules) falls off the railing and gets hurt, am I still held responsible. I do have a meeting scheduled with my lawyer to discuss this but wondering if any one has already gone through this issue.

Jefflange
05-11-2004, 03:24 AM
Yell at them and if the parents do not like it teel them to go to another place.

SecretarytoBraveDave
05-11-2004, 03:31 AM
It is possible for management to control these situations.

Damage control is essential. IF attended, your attendents, which are extensions of you and your business, should be able to handle this issue with the professionalism and authoritive confidence this position may require. An attendant, if respected by the clientelle should easily be able to reprimand anyone in the mat regardless of age. I reprimanded many in my 10 years and never caught any flack. Of course you want your representives to understand the ecomonics and levels of the business chain as well as the sensitive issue regarding negative attentions.

petefritz
05-11-2004, 03:49 AM
I would go unattended. In a town of 2000 you really don;t need to be there anyway. Then you won't see all these kids and make you nervous. When I was a kid I sliped and fell playing and skined my knees, stuff that is not allowed these days.

Look at them with $$ signs in your eyes. You can post a sign, not responsible for injury to unattended childern.

actionmedia
05-11-2004, 07:15 AM
Why don't try diferent aproach to the problem? It is imposible keep children from playing.
If they want to play than offer them a playgorund.
I don't know exactly how is your location. You said you have trees and I think a small playground would suit there.
Does your town have a playground? Even if it has, you can ask local comunity to help you with some founds to build it.
May be this way many other parents will come to do laundry at your mat.
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millenniumplus
05-11-2004, 12:22 PM
We have a very upscale store and a store in one of the toughest places to survive in the USA. We find the
same problems you describe in both locations. Do not believe it is possible to stop completely kids from acting
up. One can only hope to contain them by speaking to the parents. With that angry parent all you can do is
be stern but respectful and hope that the years of the relationship you develop by seeing them everytime
they come will make the difference between a big fight and nuetrality. Things will improve for a few visits
then it's back to the way it was and we remind them again. We have the "Laundromat Rules" signs (also
in Spanish) and we have a play area but kids will be kids. We even have other parents step in and comment
to parents to curb their kids behavior (THX!). We have had minimal damage resulting from "kids gone wild"
so we've been lucky. In 3 years personally have had to ban two families not to come back with their kids
because of horrible behavior that seemed to never get better. In one of those incidents I was literally
applauded for booting (and banning) a family out . It has been my observations that people tend to get
their kids under control if it is coming from the owner. We can't be there at all times so we work with
employees on ways to handle this and there have been times the employee called us and we spoke
to the parent over the phone. We all have different experiences and ways to resolve this matter. We
just wanted to add it helps to "use" the relationship/friendship that evolves between staff and customer.
It may not seem like much but it generally works here. What would be a great post is the best/worse
"kids (or parents) gone wild" story (LoL!!!). At the end of the day, always kid (haha) with wifey -
like the movie "Barber Shop", we could easily write a screen play for a movie called "Laundromat".
No need to push to make the story line interesting, reality would be crazy nuff. Look forward to
hearing more about this post it really helped. Sometimes one can feel like "are we the only ones
having crazy expereinces like this" all to find it's just another day in the life of a laundromat owner.

brucehwalker
05-11-2004, 02:20 PM
I like to keep things positive and signs are very negative. You don't see signs at the mall for silly things, why is our business any different? Where would the list end?

No parking inside the building.
Don't yell and scream.
Please don't bathe your feet in the sink.
If you dry your clothes with a ink pen or lipstick, it isn't my fault.

I've had all the above happen. Would a sign have helped? No. Parents are super sensitve when anyone else corrects them. Do your best, and provide something positive for them other than misbehaving. I keep a few toys behind the counter that I offer when someone is unrully. I also have a couple of bean bags with carttoon network going. It isn't perfect but it is something.

One of my attendants suggested to hammer some nails in the wall to hang them from. I'll let you know how it works... /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

Kari
05-11-2004, 03:57 PM
I am finding that owning a Laundromat is the best form of birth control. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Burley
05-11-2004, 06:28 PM
Kari--try not thinking this way. It is the lazy ass parents fault for letting the kids run while they look the other way. Based on your comments, I am sure your kids would be fine!

Danlaundry
05-12-2004, 06:49 AM
Simple,

Tell the parents you appreciate their business but the kid is not welcome here again and if that means loosing their business so be it. You can also threaten to call child protective services on them. This one seems to work well.

Jefflange
05-12-2004, 01:37 PM
Or try twisting the kids arm when the parents are not looking..